
When an only child suddenly has a baby sibling to deal with, their world is rocked. You never know quite how they will react. The idea is introduced and explained as much as possible during pregnancy, but it is even a difficult concept for the parents to envision.
I pictured Lexi having both moments of greatness and moments of insanity. Fortunately, I am fairly impressed by how well she is handling this big change. Don't get me wrong, she has had insane moments, but they have never been directed at the baby. She is gentle and sweet with him. He doesn’t get the kind of attention she craves anyway. It is me that is getting the brunt of her small bouts of hostility. She seems to be testing her boundaries, which is fine.
It started off with an extra dose of daddy’s girl, while I was in the hospital. She would come in my room and be very sweet, but made it clear that he was the one she wanted to take care of her needs. Her desire to be Miss Independent grew. When was released from the hospital, she shrieked with joy. I was showered with hugs and kisses. She kept saying, “I missed you, mommy.” Since then, she goes back and forth. All last week, she sucked up to Grandma and her dad, which helped with my recovery. She can be very sweet and loving to me, but she can also play deaf and will shout at me for no reason.
Overall, I am pleased with the way she is handling the new member in our family. She even picked the best person to take her frustrations out on. I absolutely did not want to have to protect the baby from her. Plus, she needed to turn to others for extra care. It was a wonderful time for her to grow closer to her Grandma and dad. As for me, we’ll have plenty of time to work back into a normal routine and she realize that her life is even better than it used to be.