As my kids lie sleeping tonight, I
am overcome with gratitude for the kindness of church members. I haven’t
exactly kept it a secret that I am struggling financially. On the other hand, I
am rather independent and truly feel that for the most part we are doing fine.
When anyone asks, I usually say we’re getting by. Of course, I constantly pray
to have our needs met and for us to make ends meet. This way of life is
stressful to say the least.
Now, I am about to admit something
that I am quite embarrassed about, but it is necessary for the post. I hate to
say it, but my kids have been sleeping in toddler beds all this time. Jordan is
about to turn 5 and he is really tall for his age. Lexi is going to be 7 in a
few months. They have completely outgrown the little beds (a while ago), but
I didn't know what to do. I struggle to buy the essentials, so even looking
around at garage sales or thrift stores wouldn't help.
Last Sunday, two men from church
that come to check in on us every month (a.k.a. Home Teachers) asked their usual
question, “Do you need anything?” As usual, I said, “We’re fine.” This time,
they broke it down. “What about food?” I said no. “What about clothes?” I
said no. Then, they asked, “What about furniture?” Suddenly, I felt a spark
(you could call it a light bulb moment).
I wanted to approach the topic
without any urgency, so I said, “If you happen to know of anyone that has twin
beds that they are giving away, we could use them.” I explained that the kids
were still sleeping in toddler beds and that we were ok, but that it would be
nice if we could get a twin bed or two in the next few months.
They called me on Friday to ask if
I would be home on Saturday. They had two twin beds for me. Apparently, they
had sent out an e-mail to all of the men/families in the congregation (a.k.a.
ward) letting them know someone was in need of twin beds. One of the men
responded. His wife had seen the e-mail and wanted to give the matching twin
beds from their guest room. They felt that the beds could be put to better
use. I am pretty sure they used them for visitors and were just being
generous. They certainly don’t know me well enough to feel any kind of
obligation or duty.
I am quite overwhelmed by their
kindness. First of all, these are very nice beds with perfect mattresses and
they were not cheap at all. Even if I was financially ok, I would not have been
able to afford these. I know that the family who gave them to me did it out of
pure goodwill.
The charitable acts didn't stop
there. I didn't have any sheets or blankets that were twin sized, but
I wasn't about to say anything. I decided that we would just make do with the
queen sized ones that I have in my linen closet for now. I was telling my
second mom/friend about the beds. She asked me about sheets and I admitted that
we would have to make do. She went right to work going through her closets to
pull out sheets and blankets for me. She came up with two sets of sheets for
Lexi’s bed and a blanket. She also found a blanket that was still in the
package for Jordan. It was even his favorite color, orange. She didn't have
any sheets to match for Jordan, so she actually went out and bought a set.
I sit here thinking about how
completely amazed and grateful I am for the compassion that we've been shown
this weekend. It is truly like Christmas here. My kids are thrilled
and we've all learned something about great acts of kindness. I definitely hope
to either re-pay them or pay it forward as soon as possible.
