Lexi has been in daycare almost 6 months and I am faced with the possibility of needing to find a different one. The company I work for has been talking about moving our main office out of the building we are currently in for years. Two years ago, they got a realtor and seriously started looking around. They did not find anything that they were thrilled with, so they finally renewed their contract and just remodeled/expanded our office. The contract was up for renewal again and I decided to not worry about it until final decisions were made. Well, the contract has been signed & our office is moving. While it is not that far away from the current one, it is a bit of a stretch for commuting out of my way to the daycare.
At first, I thought about how happy Lexi is and that I should just force the situation to work somehow or at least try it for a while. That was my mindset until the New Year brought a new daycare policy (we finally got the memo yesterday). I do not know what brought this on, but they have decided to keep records and report every bump, scratch, bruise and diaper rash to Child Services. They should only be doing that when they are suspicious of neglect and/or abuse. Can you imagine the number of ridiculous reports they are writing?
So far, I have been silently infuriated by the fact that they have ignored the scratch on her thigh (2”) and have chosen to focus on every little pin point sized diaper rash dot. She had ONE on Friday and TWO on Monday that I was asked to sign off on. Plus, they only count them in the morning during the first diaper change so that it looks like the parents’ fault.
I have decided that this is definitely not a battle I am willing to fight. In a sappy nice way, I tried to explain to them that Lexi (like me & other very pale people) has sensitive skin and that keeping these reports will become tedious. I was so angry about this Monday night that I couldn't even explain the situation to Steve without snapping at him. The next morning, I just decided to tell the daycare ladies that my office would probably be moving and I would let them know whether or not I would change daycares. Of course, I said this very politely. Since then, there have been no reports written about Lexi. **IMPORTANT NOTE: On Wednesday, she came home with at least 15 of those little diaper rash dots. She did not have them that morning.
In fairness to the daycare, I need to say that this whole thing has been orchestrated by one person, the Office Manager. She is one of those emotional mood swing ladies that often bullies parents on her bad days. I have always been leery of her and have stood up to her the 2 times she tried to bully me. Fortunately, she does paperwork and does not take care of the kids. Lexi's care taker as well as the owner is completely different and wonderful, which was the important thing in my eyes.
Anyway, my point is that I am back to searching for a good daycare. I have heard of one in a church very close to the new office, so I will start there.
BIG TGIF TODAY!